silentstalk:

honestly, i see tons of “ before shipping with me, know ___ ” or “ if you wanna ship, tell me bc i probs ship the thing too ”. but where are all the it’s okay to say no posts? here’s your reminder now: if you’re not feeling a ship, if you’re no longer comfortable writing a ship or with that partner, if you just want to drop it for any little reason? it’s okay. there’s no sense in allowing others to make your happy space uncomfortable. it’s okay to let others know that you’re uncomfortable and drop ships. drop the idea that you’re obligated to do anything you’re not okay with. it’s rp, not rl. ♡